Trust

Trust 

Trust is the base for every relationship you carry on earth, weather it has to do with your family, friends or boyfriend/girlfriend, trust is needed. What is trust? Trust is having confidence in others, believing that they will not let you down, and imagining that they will say the truth no matter what. You can say how can this tinny word have such an impact in relationships, but I’ll tell you how. With your family trust is primarily important to have freedom. Let’s say you want to go to this party really badly, and your mom does not let you because she doesn’t think it is appropriate, is this fair? Depends, but you probably don’t think it is. So you tell your mom you are going to a friend’s house, but you really are not. If your mom finds out she will notice that you lied to her, and if you don’t tell her the truth how can she trust you, if she won’t know if your going to commit to your word or if you are going to betray her and lie. See how important trust can be? Now with your friends it gets complicated, but you simply just have to go with having confidence in them and believe that everything they will do is to help you. One situation which demonstrates trust is lets say your are completely in love with this guy and finally he asks you out and you pass weeks or even months with him happily, and your friend tells you, I saw him with another girl. Probably your first reaction will be, don’t lie he loves me, why are you trying to separate us. Here you betrayed the trust of your friend because you didn’t have confidence in her, and that she was saying the truth, maybe at this point you might of have lost your friends confidence because trust has to be mutual, do give trust you have to trust. In a love relationship it goes with the same principal just trust. I personally believe that there is no point in being jealous because if you trust you will no that that person shall ever leave you if he loves you inof. I have to say one more thing about trust and that is that no matter what the people that love you are the ones that you should trust because they will do what is best for you.